Walking Toward Peace Webinar
Sign up for the below webinar regarding the book, Walking Toward Peace, which I am honored to be featured in.
Walking Toward Peace Webinar
Sign up for the below webinar regarding the book, Walking Toward Peace, which I am honored to be featured in.
I have had the honor of becoming dear friends with the amazing woman and author, Cindy Ross. She has a new book called, Walking Toward Peace, which is about we veterans who have turned to the outdoors and hiking as a way to help ourselves heal. I am honored to be one of the veterans she has chosen to feature in her new book and hope that my story of thru-hiking of the Appalachian Trail will inspire others to get outside. Cindy has written several other amazing books, so I am sure this one will not disappoint as well. You can pre-order the book on Amazon, it releases on 1 April 2021
"Walking Toward Peace shares the intimate stories of veterans who, post-deployment, have wrestled with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Through a process called ecotherapy, spending time in nature to promote healing and mental health, they have found new tools to deal with issues that have resulted from combat experiences: survivor’s guilt, nightmares, lack of trust, depression, hypervigilance, thoughts of suicide, and lack of purpose. Some veterans profiled here have gone to extremes, spending months on long-distance expeditions, like hiking the 3,100-mile Continental Divide Trail or canoeing the 2,320-mile Mississippi River. For many others, however, brief excursions in the outdoors offer an opportunity for healing. Author Cindy Ross examines current research and perspectives of professional therapists and provides information on organizations devoted to healing veterans in the outdoors. Each featured veteran is depicted in an illustrated portrait. Veterans share their stories, frequently as they sit by a campfire, describing wartime traumas and their present lives. Through their collective voices what becomes clear is that anyone suffering from any form of PTSD may discover the powerful comfort and healing that can be found in the outdoors."It has been a long time since we have updated our blog and we do apologize. We are excited to once again share our (Hendo/Ilene and Hendo's Mom Mom/Inge) adventures, lessons learned, struggles, successes, etc etc etc. Thank you for checking back in or checking in for the first time. If our "hike" through life brings a smile to your day, lets you know you aren't alone on this crazy "trail", provides you some inspiration, expands your knowledge, then all that we go through and sharing it with you makes it all worth it. Below is the latest and greatest for 2020, but we will be posting catchup posts for 2017, 2018 and 2019 in the coming days, so don't worry we will make sure to explain further anything mentioned for this year.
Happy Trails!!!
Hendo & Hendo's Mom
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Where to begin for 2020! Has there ever been such an unusual year? No dull and boring this year, at least in our lives. The year began as somewhat normal, if there ever is such a thing for us. We parked our 35 ft RV Motorhome at Grandma Farnham’s driveway in Mt. Zion, IL in September 2019. Inge taught middle school/high school at an alternative school in Decatur, IL for the 2019-2020 school year, and I (Ilene) renovated the RV I had purchased the previous March, 2019, while I had been living and working in Kansas. While the repairs the "new" motorhome needed were within my skillset (especially since this is now my 3rd RV renovation/rebuild), the extent of the repairs were more than originally thought, so it was disheartening and frustrating at times. The windows had not been properly re-caulked over the years and so they had leaked at times and as a result the walls had rot\ in several places throughout the RV. Therefore, the rot had to be removed and repaired. The RV originally had blue shag carpet throughout, definitely a result of the "Good Idea Fairy". We removed all of the carpet and replaced it with linoleum, a square slate pattern in the "living room and kitchen" areas and a multi-grey hexagon pattern in the "bathroom and back bedroom areas".
The re-installation of the I-beams and new bolts had to wait until the snow melted and cleared in March. One is never responsible for what is said while backing up a trailer or motorhome, nor when installing new frame mounts and bolts underneath a Class A motorhome. Choice words were exchanged between Mom and I, F.U.N. was had by both and the I-beams, new rubber mounts and new bolts were re-installed and the RV was once again whole.
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We stayed at Grandma Farnham’s through the onset of coronavirus that shut down everything for March, April, May. Mom learned to teach from home via computer and cell phone. After nearly 50 years of teaching, she prefers in-the-classroom in person rather than with computers and having to use cell phones for those students who do not have computer access in their homes.
Since we were in the west and hadn’t seen Daniel for three years we decided to drive to Kalispell, Montana to visit him and his wife, Kaylee. We had been needing to order a piece to repair the steering on the RV so decided to order it while there. Well, if you have probably also noticed, many items were behind on ordering and delivery this year! It took four months for the part to arrive in Kalispell.
Kayaking on McDonald Lake and McDonald Creek in Glacier National Park
Inge left Kalispell the beginning of August and drove the pick-up truck back to Illinois to start teaching August 10. I stayed in Montana until October to get the RV piece replaced.
Goodbye Montana
I then drove the RV to Mom's sister Sue’s house in Decatur, Illinois where we were supposed to be parked for a few weeks while we finished repairs and renovations on the RV before relocating to a local mobile home park for the rest of the winter and spring. Well, Murphy seems to have had other plans in mind.
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I drove the RV to Houston, Texas in mid-November for a reunion with my Army buddies from Afghanistan. I also got to meet with a fellow paratrooper friend of mine, Kristi outside of Houston and then headed over to Crestview, FL to visit my paratrooper sister, April. April and I originally met at Airborne School in 1995 and were later stationed at Ft. Bragg together.
Two hundred miles south of Decatur, Illinois, on my way back to my aunt's house, the engine in my RV started making horrendous sounds and died. I quickly pulled off onto the shoulder and called AAA Roadside Assistance. Mom and I both have AAA RV Plus club memberships. I used one of my 100-mile tows to get the RV initially towed to a mechanic in Marion, IL. Mom had driven down and met me at the shop in Marion. The shop in Marion determined the repairs needed were too serious, so we used two more tows to get the RV towed back to my Aunt Sue’s house in Decatur, IL.
This fall semester Mom has been teaching high school general math, algebra, geometry, and
geography at an alternative Middle and High School in Decatur, IL. This alternative school has
very small classes of only two to three students in each, with morning and
afternoon sessions. School started in
person on August 10. Special precautions
were implemented. They wore masks, sanitized hands at every turn, sanitized
tables and chairs after each class change, and rooms were machine sanitized
twice daily. There were only a couple of
positive cases of COVID 19. Mom had a COVID-19 test at the time in late November and her results came back negative. The week
before Thanksgiving, the health department mandated that all schools be closed in
our county, so Mom is once again total remote at home until at least 19 January 2021. We will see what 2021 brings.
Mom began teaching in August 1971 and has told
her current principal that June 2021 would be a good time to truly retire. She has spent every year either full time
teaching, substitute teaching, or working as a teacher assistant and has been
in every grade level from three-year-old preschool to senior high school
teaching language arts, science, math, social studies, physical education, special
education, and music, teaching in Missouri, Illinois, and North Carolina. Maybe she should let someone else have a
chance at this fun career! At 71 years
old she has too many other things she wants to do before her body and mind stop
her. She isn’t ready to quit yet, she
just doesn’t want the regimen of full time work.
I have decided to pursue work as an Emergency Medical Technician (EMT), since I completed the course and have been a National Registry EMT licensed in Kansas since May 2019. We do not want to remain in Illinois and have researched a few good places to settle from all of our travels. We’ll let you know where we land in the summer of 2021.
My Grandma Henderson (Dad's Mother) passed away October 30, 2020 while living with her daughter in Niles, Michigan. Ninety-one year old Grandma Helen Henderson was standing in her kitchen next to her daughter Diane while they were fixing breakfast for my Grandpa Henderson. She fell to the floor and was gone! I still have my ninety-two year old Grandma Else Farnham living independently in Mt Zion, Illinois and ninety-one year old Grandpa Eugene Henderson living with his daughter in Niles, Michigan.
Wear a mask, wash/sanitize your hands, stay away from large crowds, don't swap spit with others and enjoy the outdoors with fresh air.